Ordained minister officiating all types of wedding ceremonies in Indiana, wedding pastor, wedding minister. Reverend Victoria Meyer
Hand Washing Ceremony Script
The bride and groom approach a table with a glass bowl of water and two hand towels. Having flowers or lemon slices floating in the water is a nice touch.
Officiant: Bride and Groom, today, in front of your family and friends, you start your life together anew as a married couple.
As with any new endeavor, it is best to start with a clean slate –
putting problems big and small behind you.
You come acknowledging that the person you have chosen is not
perfect, yet fits with you in a way no other person can.
Whatever difficulties you may have experienced, today you have
decided that your love is bigger than any of them and you have chosen a life together.
Water brings forgiveness and we all need forgiveness.
We need to forgive others and we need to forgive ourselves.
As you wash your hands in this bowl of water, forgive yourself and each other for any pain in the past.
Allow yourself to be forgiven for your human imperfections.
Allowing yourselves to have your hands dried by each other signifies
And we have to be vulnerable -- it breaks through isolation and in our
own vulnerability, we become more caring and understanding of our mate.
In a loving and compassionate marriage, to achieve the greatest
intimacy, you must have the courage to be open and vulnerable to each other.
As they dry one another's hands, the officiant asks:
Bride and Groom do you begin your lives together with grace and compassion?
They answer : We Do
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